Many modern romantic relationships have proven to fail, mostly because we rush into relationships or marriage, or one is not compatible with the partner. Also common is unfaithfulness, high expectations in the relationship or even maybe you are not romantic enough for your partners.
It doesn’t matter whether you are in a new relationship or you’ve been married for years, maintaining that spark is very important in any relationship. Here are some of the tips to help you maintain a healthy romantic relationship;
Leave no doubts
Make sure that your partner knows you’re fully into them and not just because of their physical features. Let them feel the love every day, encourage and support them to achieve their goal.
Plan for the weekend
It doesn’t matter what week you’ve had, talk and plan about exciting and fun things you will do for the weekend. It will also motivate you to work hard and fast for the anticipation of the weekend. Planning ahead helps you both discuss things and avoid second guessing.
Stay Positive
Life is not a crystal stair, sometimes you might be in a bad mood, chances are your crappy mood will rub off on everyone around you, including your partner. As unavoidable as it can be , but try to do your best to let go of negative thoughts, accept and find solutions, let them see that you are approaching each challenge with a positive and happy attitude.
Share Secrets
When one shares their secrets it shows they trust you fully. Have fun while talking secrets - you can turn it into a game where each reveals a new dirty secret or a secret no one knows about. This will help you know them better.
Never Go to Sleep Angry
Don’t let the day pass by without fixing your problem. Instead, continue until both sides have had enough, and decide together that the argument has ended, then forget the issue. Just learn to forgive each other. Do not move out when you have a disagreement, stay and fix it. If possible sleep on the same bed.
Talk on Random Things
Talk about your favorite restaurants that you have just discovered in the country or town, places you would like to visit. It will give you both chance to explore and make more beautiful memories.
Compliment them
Take time to notice different things like the outfit they picked out, or appreciate their make up or even haircut. However, compliments also don’t have to be purely physical. You can also compliment them on their promotion at work, or tell them how much you admire their emotional bravery.
Work as a team
You are not just a couple but you are a “team”. Think of your joint success and use it to motivate each other, support each other through discipline, and pull each other through the hard stuff. Don’t play the blame game for assigning blame when having an argument will only ruin your relationship. So avoid blaming each other as much as possible and work through the situation like partners.